When guys cheat on women, they should not be alarmed.
I came across a query from someone while scrolling through Twitter's newsfeed one day: "Is it also not okay to cheat when I use a condom?"
I came across a query from someone while scrolling through Twitter’s newsfeed one day: “Is it also not okay to cheat when I use a condom?”
When you keep to the science of STIs and unexpected pregnancies, there’s no reason to cheat because condoms, when used correctly, can protect you against both.
However, I do not believe that the sex between the cheater and their new sexual partner brings the most agony to the person who is being cheated on. To the individual who has been cheated on, the most painful thing is probably seeing the person they see as their partner lose emotional attachment or affection for them.
You see, if someone cheats and their main partner or bae is unaware of it, the cheating may not have any serious implications for the main bae. It can be a traumatic experience if the cheater loses emotional attachment or affection for their main bae, even if there is no suspicion or convincing evidence on the part of the one who is being cheated on that their partner is having sex with another person.
However, anytime cheating occurs on either side, I believe it is critical to understand the motivation for cheating. Cheating has diverse consequences based on the situation and motivation. The majority of incidences of male cheating aren’t particularly serious. They always have little or no information to read.
Men are naturally horny individuals that can sleep with a lot of different women without thinking about it. Men do not lose emotional attachment or affection for their main partners in such cheating setups, and they always make smart measures to conceal their purposeless infidelity.
In their study The Psychology of Sex Differences, published in 1974, Maccoby and Jacklyn discovered that 70% of males were eager to have sex with complete strangers who exhibited interest in them. In the same survey, 0% of women said they wanted to have sex with complete strangers.
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“I’ve been noticing you around campus, and I think you quite appealing,” an attractive researcher remarked to members of the opposite sex in a few studies on college students.
The researcher then posed one of three questions: Would you go out on a date with me? Would you return to my apartment with me? Would you go to bed with me?
About half of both sexes agreed to go on a date, according to the results. When it came to casual sex, the disparity was clear: not a single woman agreed, whereas 70% of men did…”
Despite the fact that all of the women in the research had no desire in having sex with strangers, I believe there are women who are capable of having sexual intercourse with complete strangers, and the 70 percent illustrates men’s preparedness and willingness.
There are, however, some rare circumstances where men cheat for very essential reasons, which I don’t believe I can completely articulate. When males cheat for significant reasons, they are frequently unconcerned about hiding their wrongdoing.
If the motivation for infidelity isn’t a desperate need for food, housing, medication, or sexual fulfillment on the part of women, then there’s reason to be concerned on the part of a man who has been cheated on. Even if their main partner has great sexual prowess, women can seek sexual happiness elsewhere.